Life is full of challenges and uncertainties. Sometimes we struggle with our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This is where Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Training, or ACT for short, comes into play. ACT is a unique, practical, and effective approach to facing life’s difficulties by fostering acceptance and mindfulness and taking action toward a meaningful life. Let’s explore what ACT is, the behaviors it addresses, and the skills it teaches.

ACT is a psychological approach to helping people accept the challenges and distressing thoughts and feelings they experience while still taking steps toward living a meaningful and fulfilling life. Instead of trying to eliminate painful thoughts or feelings, ACT teaches individuals to develop a more accepting and compassionate relationship with them.

Six common behaviors people engage in that ACT addresses are:

  1. Avoiding thoughts and feelings: ACT addresses the tendency to avoid or suppress uncomfortable thoughts or feelings. For example, someone might avoid social situations because they fear feeling rejected.
  2. Being controlled by thoughts: ACT helps individuals recognize that they are not their thoughts. For instance, someone who believes they’re not smart enough might avoid pursuing opportunities.
  3. Having difficulty identifying values: People often struggle to identify what truly matters to them. This can lead to feeling lost or directionless.
  4. Being unaware of the present moment: People get caught up in worries about the past or future, missing out on the present. This could manifest as missing the beauty of a moment due to being preoccupied with something in the past.
  5. Overly attaching to self labels: People can hold tightly onto thoughts, memories, or beliefs about who they think they are. For example, someone thinks, “I’m not good enough,” or “I’m shy.” These ideas become labels that they stick to themselves.
  6. Ineffective action: Sometimes, people feel stuck and don’t take action toward their goals due to fear of failure or uncertainty.

The six skills ACT teaches to address these common human behaviors are:

  1. Acceptance: ACT encourages embracing thoughts and feelings. For example, acknowledging feeling anxiety without trying to push it away.
  2. Cognitive defusion: This skill involves recognizing that thoughts are not facts. For instance, instead of believing “I’m not smart enough,” one can learn to say, “I’m noticing I’m having the thought I’m not smart enough.”
  3. Values identification: Identifying what truly matters to you and aligning your actions with those values.
  4. Present moment awareness: Learning to be fully present in the moment, appreciating life as it unfolds.
  5. Self-as-context: Recognizing that your sense of self is not defined solely by your thoughts,  memories, or beliefs.
  6. Committed action: Taking steps towards your values, even if it involves discomfort or challenges.

To sum up, ACT offers a fresh and different perspective on facing life’s challenges by changing one’s relationship with their thoughts and feelings. It emphasizes mindfulness and living a valued life instead of trying to change or alter thoughts and feelings. By teaching skills that help individuals accept their experiences, be present, and take meaningful actions, ACT empowers people to lead richer and more fulfilling lives. By understanding the six common human behaviors ACT addresses and the skills it teaches, individuals can embrace change and approach life’s difficulties with newfound resilience.

References

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  3. Hayes, S. C., Strosahl, K., & Wilson, K. G. (2012). Acceptance and commitment therapy: The process and practice of mindful change. Guilford Press.
  4. Harris, R. (2009). ACT made simple: An easy-to-read primer on acceptance and commitment therapy. New Harbinger Publications.